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Gradyman
11-15-2007, 09:36 PM
I felt like this was a worthwhile moment to share with you all.

I was sitting in our church service last Sunday and while the pastor was speaking I began to get a “word picture”, a sort of vision about trusting God. I’m a photographer so thinking in pictures (visions) comes easy to me…guess that’s why I am a photographer!

The picture I got was of a person hanging on to a rope in a dark place…the proverbial “end of the rope” where one just “ties a not & hangs on” because everything they could think of to do has been exhausted.

At this point some will hope & pray that God comes through to help them with the climb back up & out. There are many other “things” that are done at the “end of the rope” depending on who you are and the thoughts you allow to become action. For the believer hoping and praying and believing God for direction should be our first thoughts; but we’ve been given a brain, strength, and a will to fix, rescue and sustain ourselves…so we make plans as we “tie a knot & hang on”…all the while believing God to help us climb up & out of the situation we’re in. We pray for deliverance & spend little time listening...in the meantime we devise a plan and carry it out only to find ourselves exhausted & still hanging there. Soon we begin to wonder if God forgot about us, if He’s even heard our prayers, if we’ve fell out of His love. The list of things that make us ask “God where are you, can’t you see me hanging here??” goes on & on! We start to feel hopeless, bewildered, even condemned. We begin to view the situation as bigger then God or too far out of His reach or even that He doesn’t care about us. Then we get to the point of anger & doubt over the situation and even get angry with Him. We begin to get angry that we’re in this pit hanging on for dear life, trying our hardest to climb out and He is no where around…we begin to get offended at God & His seeming lack of concern.

At this point, in our thoughts and attitudes we feel very much like John the Baptist when he found himself between the prison bars and the silver platter…he sent his men to ask Jesus “are you the Messiah or should we look for another?” (Matt 11:2-6) This doubt is coming from a guy who declared who Jesus was when He was baptized by him and was the forerunner for Jesus AND whom Jesus said that there are none greater in the kingdom of heaven!!! So, no matter who you are in Him and how mighty your works in Him and how close you are to Him…we are all humane and can go through these “end of your rope” situations. At this point Jesus response to John is somewhat encouraging & yet ends with the statement “Blessed is he who isn’t offended because of me.”

I realized on Sunday that even though it’s normal to feel all these things about God in our situation what must be done in order to have peace and get through it is to trust God. Sounds simple, but trusting Him requires a total abandonment to Him. At the end of the rope we must lean not on our own understanding, because sometimes things just don’t make any sense, we must lean on the wisdom of God, stop trying to climb out and be still to hear what He is saying. The scripture for this goes like this: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart & lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) While hanging on the end of the rope we must not get all tied up in how we got there playing the blame game, not get exhausted trying to climb out, not get offended at God because he hasn’t delivered us the way WE were sure it needed to be done.

In the word picture I had I felt as if the Lord was telling the person to let go of the rope!!?? You could see they were not too keen on falling because it wasn’t, at least in their mind, the way out. They couldn’t see the bottom of the situation & the fear of the unknown was overwhelming. With no power left to hang & no other way out they let go, not so much because they trusted Him, but because they finally realized where they were…at the end of their rope. As they begun the fall they were overwhelmed with a sense of fear. As they accelerated the fear began to get very real and at the point of becoming paralyzed thoughts came through piercing the darkness and the fear began to subside. They began to realize that God didn’t give them a spirit of fear, but of Love, Power & a Sound Mind. As the realization of this “gift” became more & more real the fall actually began to feel OK, even though they still didn’t know any more about what was going to happen next. It felt OK because they didn’t have to hang on any longer & they could just relax. Their well being was no longer their responsibility, for there was nothing they could do at this moment to help themselves anyway. It was then that trusting God became a living breathing power that was starting to consume them from the inside. On the outside they could still feel the rushing acceleration of the fall, but they were at peace with it…even without understanding it all. As the fall continued they began to feel a sense of joy at times that one would feel as they jumped from a plane with a well packed parachute. It was as though the realization of Gods presence and His overwhelming love made them begin to actually “enjoy” the fall. As this realization grew so did their confidence in Him to see them through, it was at this moment that the fall began to slow and the darkness began to fade…the light of His presence with them began to show all around and they could now understand the reason the fall had begun to slow is because His hands were gently guiding them down. As they came to a stop they could feel that He had been there all along and could see the smile on His face as He watch the relief and peace from His love flood their soul. They had begun to trust Him and this was the lesson they needed to learn. He had not forgotten them; He wasn’t too busy for them, His love had never left and had now become very real to them. He had known, at this time in their life, they had needed to climb higher in their knowledge of Him and His love for them. They still didn’t have all the answers, but it didn’t matter now…they trusted Him and His love for them and knew it was all going to work out for good. They had begun to see things from His perspective, an eternal perspective and it was all going to be OK.

“Blessed is he who is not offended because of Me”

badcompany
11-15-2007, 10:21 PM
we all seem to forget , but its true

Number1StunNer
11-16-2007, 12:09 AM
Very nice...very true.

firefyterx
11-16-2007, 01:08 AM
AMEN

Gamble
11-19-2007, 10:59 PM
:scratchhead::scratchhead:

Felix B.
11-19-2007, 11:03 PM
GRADYMAN, THANKS FOR SHARING WITH ALL OF US

Gradyman
11-20-2007, 09:57 AM
Thanks Guys, basically it's easy to "talk" to God, but are we taking time to listen & when we get an answer are we willing to trust Him in it.

Marcus
11-20-2007, 10:13 AM
One night I was out driving and had little too much to drink. I had been down on my luck and was pretty depressed. I just knew I was going to hurt myself or someone else if I kept driving...so I closed my eyes, lifted my hands up in the air, and exclaimed "Jesus, take the wheel!". Jesus saved me. He drove my drunk ass off the road, through a ditch and off into the woods and hit a tree. I hit my head on the steering wheel and it knocked me out.
I woke up the next morning with a little bump on my head and was able to start my car and drive out. Nobody got hurt.
I'm a believer. He really does listen.

Gradyman
11-20-2007, 02:17 PM
One night ... He really does listen.

Now that's trust;)...if you're car came out without a scratch I'd say you got delivered!!:D

Gradyman
11-22-2007, 10:10 AM
Marcus, after thinking about your example I stopped to listen to what I felt God might think about it. He said, in no audible voice just a heartfelt tug, that Marcus has hit the nail on the head concerning a lot of folks who pray, even the well churched non drunk driver type.

#1 One night I was out driving and had a little too much to drink. I had been down on my luck and was pretty depressed...

This is a big problem with believers & non believers...They only cry out (pray) when they're in trouble and need a spiritual "Santa Clause". They never come to Me to just commune (two way conversation) or fellowship.

#2 I just knew I was going to hurt myself or someone else if I kept driving...so I closed my eyes, lifted my hands up in the air, and exclaimed "Jesus, take the wheel!"...

This is a perfect example of what a lot of folks, churched & otherwise, do when they're faced with situations. They seem to always think they know the outcome of their circumstance. They like to predict what's going to happen and determine their own course of action. Then what's most disturbing is they think they're using "faith" when they try to TELL Me what to do for them. They even use My words of scripture to "command" Me to act as they wish. Instead of ASKING Me what to do, listening to what I say and trusting ME. In the reality of their thoughts they have elevated themselves higher then Me and cast aside My power & wisdom.

#3 I woke up the next morning with a little bump on my head and was able to start my car and drive out. Nobody got hurt.!..

Tell him & all the others that "I love them!" My grace & mercy has saved them many times that they don't even realize, nor did they ask for My help...I make it rain on the just & the unjust"

#4 I'm a believer.

Lens thoughts here...I bet He wish it were that easy!!:D


In a nutshell...many go to God in their circumstance, tell Him what they want Him to do, then they think they have faith by "letting go" and beleving what they told Him to do will come to pass. They never listen to that "still small voice" of Gods wisdom & direction to lead them through the circumstance, and yet, His grace & mercy still deliver them a lot of the time.

Marcus
11-22-2007, 10:30 AM
My tounge was firmly in my cheek when I made up that story, Lens. The country song "Jesus take the wheel" inspired it. I find the song absurd. I'm a firm believer that an individual is master of his own destiny...within the bounds that society and circumstance allows.

Gradyman
11-22-2007, 10:35 AM
:thumbup: I'm not much of a country music listener...made for a good point though!! Thanks and have a great Thanksgiving!

Marcus
11-22-2007, 11:18 AM
:thumbup: I'm not much of a country music listener...made for a good point though!! Thanks and have a great Thanksgiving!

Much warmth and happiness to you and yours on Thanksgiving too, Lens.:thumbup: